Sermon notes from Dr. E. Dewey Smith at One Community Church, following Mary's journey from the Word to weeping to worship at the feet of Jesus.
Dr. E. Dewey Smith
One Community Church
The theme is faith that shows up. Through Mary's encounters with Jesus, we see a progression of faith: the same feet, but a different posture and a different experience.
Each Gospel writer presents a different aspect of Jesus:
We can also learn about Jesus through the significance of his body.
Jesus saw Zacchaeus. He saw the woman who had been bent over for eighteen years. He sees beyond our faults to our needs.
The feet of Jesus speak to our positioning and our posture. We should be positioned at his feet.
Many of us want to be near his hand because we want provision: bills paid, relationships restored, and desires fulfilled. But Mary repeatedly appears at his feet.
Her faith journey is revealed through that consistent position.
Jesus loved Martha, Mary, and Lazarus. Their home in Bethany was a place where he visited and received their ministry.
Previously, Martha had been preparing a meal while Mary sat at his feet. Now their brother Lazarus is sick, and the sisters send word to Jesus.
They bring the illness of someone he loves to his attention.
The sisters do not explicitly ask for a miracle, healing, or even his arrival. They share their concern.
Sometimes our responsibility is to tell God how we feel and allow him to determine how he will act.
There is nothing wrong with a specific request. But sharing our concerns also means being willing to accept God's sovereign intervention rather than insisting on our own response and timetable.
Jesus loves this family, yet he stays two more days after hearing that Lazarus is sick.
Why is his love connected to delay?
We often measure God's love by whether he provides in the way we want. But maturing faith learns to worship even when his response does not match our expectations.
If he shows up, I'll bless him. If he's delayed, I'll bless him. His hand is not what matters most. Let me remain at his feet.
The earlier chapters of John make this delay difficult to understand:
Mary could reasonably have expected him to respond to the family he loved. Yet when he arrives, Lazarus has been dead four days.
When Jesus arrives, Mary remains seated in the house.
It is easy to assume she is angry or refusing to speak to him. But perhaps she is exhausted. She has prayed, hoped, waited, and buried her brother.
Life will bring circumstances you cannot do anything about except sit in them.
Sometimes faith needs a moment to process what has happened.
Dr. Smith shares the loss of his godmother, mother, best friend from college, and sister within twenty-eight days.
There were four caskets, four obituaries, four cemetery plots, and four eulogies. Staying busy became a way to avoid sitting with the pain.
He describes trying so hard to be the preacher that he did not allow himself to be a son. But grief caught up with him through depression, difficulty getting out of bed, and the ache of holidays without his mother.
Knowing his mother was in heaven did not remove the pain of her absence here.
Being a person of faith does not mean life will not hurt. Being a leader does not put everything within your control.
Busyness, shopping, alcohol, and a smiling appearance can become ways of masking pain rather than facing it.
Sitting with what has happened can become a first step toward healing: acknowledging that you have exhausted your possibilities and must trust God with what is beyond you.
Stop trying to figure everything out. Let God meet you with his presence and the assurance that you are not alone.
Dr. Smith recounts a story attributed to Watchman about a struggling swimmer and a lifeguard. He uses the swimmer's exhaustion and rescue as an illustration of surrender.
The sermon's point is that frantic effort can keep us trying to control what we cannot resolve. Surrender acknowledges that our own strength is exhausted.
God, take the wheel of my life. You are not my co-pilot. You are Lord.
When Mary comes to Jesus, she falls at his feet in grief over her brother's death.
In Luke, she was at his feet hearing the Word. Now she is at those same feet weeping.
She is living between what she knows of Jesus and the reality of her broken heart. Faith does not mean that tension disappears.
Same feet. Different posture. Different faith.
Jesus asks to be taken to Lazarus's tomb. The family knows Lazarus has been dead four days and that his body has begun to decay.
But their lack of answers does not mean Jesus lacks a solution.
Jesus calls for the stone to be moved. Those standing nearby must participate by moving what stands before the grave.
Jesus calls Lazarus out, and Lazarus comes forth.
The same mouth that speaks with power speaks into this family's grief.
Mary did not know how Jesus would respond. She could not control the outcome. Yet the one at whose feet she wept had power even over the grave.
Dr. Smith explains the four-day delay against a first-century belief that a deceased person's spirit could remain near the body for three days.
He contrasts Lazarus's resurrection with the raising of a young girl and a widow's son, whose deaths others might dispute.
In the sermon's explanation, the fourth day leaves no room to dismiss the miracle. The delay is not presented as punishment for something Mary did wrong, but as the setting for a wonder that gives God the glory.
After Lazarus's resurrection, Jesus withdraws to Ephraim. He later returns, six days before Passover, for a dinner.
Martha is there. Mary is there. Lazarus, who has been raised from the dead, is there.
Mary takes costly spikenard, anoints Jesus's feet, and wipes them with her hair.
Once again, she is at his feet, but now her posture is worship.
Dr. Smith draws attention to the significance of Mary's hair. What Paul calls a woman's glory is placed at the feet of Jesus.
Mary's action becomes a picture of surrendering personal glory to the one who deserves all glory, honor, and praise.
At the feet of Jesus, I put my glory before the one who is due all glory.
Our faith grows, moves, and progresses. The experience changes, but the position remains.
Whatever you do, do not lose your posture at the feet of Jesus.
Some are at his feet receiving the Word. Others are at his feet weeping.
Dr. Smith challenges the masks people wear in church: appearing to have everything together while hiding grief, conflict, and pain.
Being saved does not mean you never struggle. Take off the costume. Allow yourself to weep.
If we stay at his feet together, he can move us from the Word through weeping into worship.
Mary pours out ointment worth a year's income. Dr. Smith presents her worship as an act of deep consecration.
First, she worships because of what Jesus has already done. Her brother, dead for four days, has been brought back to life.
In chapter 12, she can praise him for his provision in chapter 11.
Look back over the previous chapter of your life. Remember the ways God has made, the needs he has met, and the doors he has opened.
Dr. Smith also connects the anointing with burial preparation. Mary's worship in chapter 12 points toward Jesus's death in chapter 19.
He presents her consecration as gratitude for what Jesus has done and worship in anticipation of what he is going to do.
The movement is from remembered provision to expectant worship.
Stay in his Word. Allow yourself to weep. Give him worship.
Frustration and struggle do not have to change your position.
The faith may be different. The circumstances may be different. But stay at the same feet.
Do not wait until the battle is over to give God praise.